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Which/where is the trendiest gay/lesbian bar in London? my friend has just ended a 3 year relationship with g/f.
I promised to take her out (trendy lesbian bar), to forget about this **** she was seeing.
I honestly dont have a clue on where to go. I need some help to organise this girls night out fro my besie mate. So, tell me. where will you all be going this weekend?
Or where is the hottest place on the scene right now??? | have you got the latest copy of "diva" dear?
that will have a good listing of em
not sure if they ahve a website i know gaytimes does but anyhow good luck!
and it seems like me and her have summink in common with seeing twats...... much more and im gonna be on the front page of the sun for "gay man murders fiance by stuffin yorkshire puddings up nose" | I've ruined my reputation in the lesbian community in my town? Before the inncident I was popular well liked and quite sought after amongst the gay girls in my town. Anyway to cut a long story short I was pretty stupid. I started seeing this reeeeeally popular girl (A)and then she was a **** but we became friends, she had broken up with her girlfriend (B) this whole time. Me and B started seeing eachother secretly and became very close as well as physical, things ended because both she and I still had feelings for A. A found out and has completely bad mouthed me to virtually every lesbian in our town. This hurts as I like her so much, she is now back with B. I now am known by everyone as being a *****, and I'm really not I just made a mistake. How can I rectify this mess?
Please no Christian propaganda. | if you fell as if their is no going back, move
if not just give it time | Should I be scared of cervical cancer as a lesbian? I'm a 20 year old girl who's recently tested clean for everything known to medicine (I had a lot of tests done. yay doctors!). I have a crush on a girl I met but she's had Cervical Cancer. I've heard horrible stories about it and nasty names like "**** rot" and nasty stuff! When i looked it up online though it seemed like it wasn't that big of a deal and that I'm likely to get it at some point in my life anyway. Am I going to get "**** Rot" from sex with someone who's had surgery for cervical cancer? Can regular testing keep me safe? Should I just not be having sex with someone who's had this?
I'm using a friends account to ask this question, because i'd be mortified if somehow she found out. Thanks! | | yes. she may still carry the HPV virus, and this virus is transmitted through skin contact. you are definitely at risk for exposure to the virus, but this does not certify that you will develop cancer. regular pap smears will not protect you from contracting the virus, but they can help prevent you from ever having cancer because of the virus. | Is he a ****? my friend edward is gay but he thinks lesbians are disguting. his boyfriend is half cast but he's rasict towards everyone else who's of a different colour. wot's wrong wiv him why's he so weird | "Half-caste" is a bit of an out-dated phrase.
Yes, he's a ****. | Please I need desperate help with my sister...? am 22 and one of 6 guys (5girls, 1 boy - I am third eldest girl)
My sister 19 recently (feb) met a girl through a friend in NSW and they began to get real close. My sister then said it was her girlfirend and they were both lesbians when they both were straight up until this year. anyway they have been getting close and we all believed she was a good friend but we were wrong - too much info so here are some short details:
- we come from strict muslim family and dating a non muslim guy is one thing but being a lesbian is a disgrace and would NEVER ever be accepted. Me and 2 of my other sis know about her apprarent lesbian
- this girl came to melbourne a few times stayed with us, lied to our faces and my parents as they shared the bed and then admitted lesbians, I decided to be supportive and say love her no matter what but things got worse fast!
- they broke up and still best friends
- my sister hangs around with lesbians now her current friends are and she thinks its cool with new secret piercings and weird hair
- the girl lied to our face, verbally abused my younger sister, has had a bad past including drugs and is a really bad influence on my sister
- my sister has dropped out of uni not knowing what she wants to do and now she apparently has a job as a magazine editor - turns out it is called le **** about lesbians - she goes to lesbian bars and this weekend she used all of us as a cover up for her to go to the launch with other lesbians where they kissed etc - she is becoming worse and worse with these friends and she did not get hom for 24 hrs mum thought she was on the farm (1hr away) at sisters - her sister did not want to get involved but had too cos knew what would happen if parents found out
- she has topless photos on her phone, she has photos of her passed out and has slept at hostels in secret and I am really ashamed of her behaviour
what do I do before she gets influenced to do something alot worse - I hate the b***h that started this with her and she is do blind by everything
my sister starts claiming she has depression cos normally not allowed out much as my parents are strict
I dont know what to do about any of this....any advice pleasssseee I am desperate???? | Apparent lesbian? You will have to accept that your sister is either lesbian or bisexual at this point in time (although from what you describe, she is closer to lesbian and farther from bisexual).
Eventually this behavior is going to be discovered by your parents. Are your parents strict, or are they concerned about the muslim community reacting against your sister? If your parents are not going to tolerate this behavior, they may just be intolerant of you supporting her, so you'll have to plan accordingly.
Your sister seems to me more interested in "breaking out" against the strict upbringing she likely had. The best thing you and your sisters can do is to try to keep her out of trouble as best you can, and guide her away from any destructive behavior. If she's a lesbian, that should be accepted by you and your sisters. However, her behavior seems to be as much as a rebellion as it is a cry for help.
| I need serious advice and help with my sister? Adult advice preferred.? I am 22 and one of 6 guys (5girls, 1 boy - I am third eldest girl)
My sister 19 recently (feb) met a girl through a friend in NSW and they began to get real close. My sister then said it was her girlfirend and they were both lesbians when they both were straight up until this year. anyway they have been getting close and we all believed she was a good friend but we were wrong - too much info so here are some short details:
- we come from strict muslim family and dating a non muslim guy is one thing but being a lesbian is a disgrace and would NEVER ever be accepted. Me and 2 of my other sis know about her apprarent lesbian
- this girl came to melbourne a few times stayed with us, lied to our faces and my parents as they shared the bed and then admitted lesbians, I decided to be supportive and say love her no matter what but things got worse fast!
- they broke up and still best friends
- my sister hangs around with lesbians now her current friends are and she thinks its cool with new secret piercings and weird hair
- the girl lied to our face, verbally abused my younger sister, has had a bad past including drugs and is a really bad influence on my sister
- my sister has dropped out of uni not knowing what she wants to do and now she apparently has a job as a magazine editor - turns out it is called le **** about lesbians - she goes to lesbian bars and this weekend she used all of us as a cover up for her to go to the launch with other lesbians where they kissed etc - she is becoming worse and worse with these friends and she did not get hom for 24 hrs mum thought she was on the farm (1hr away) at sisters - her sister did not want to get involved but had too cos knew what would happen if parents found out
- she has topless photos on her phone, she has photos of her passed out and has slept at hostels in secret and I am really ashamed of her behaviour
what do I do before she gets influenced to do something alot worse - I hate the b***h that started this with her and she is do blind by everything
my sister starts claiming she has depression cos normally not allowed out much as my parents are strict
I dont know what to do about any of this....any advice pleasssseee I am desperate???? | Well first,you are not to blame by the sounds of things,so don't accept any blame.It is far from uncommon for every family to have some form of problem not apparent from the outside,so you are not unique and therefore you might take some small comfort from that alone.
It seems to me,that although strict,your family regime is a sensible one,or you wouldnt even be showing concern,so my next step would be to involve the family,tell your parents.
They do have the right,and so they should to know,after all,who brought you thus far into the world?
Maybe then,a family decision can be made,whether to deal with your sisters antics,or to leave be,and let things run their course-that would depend on the greater feeling.
The thing that comes out strongest here,is your love for your sister,and that is commendable,and will no doubt be recognised by your parents,after the initial anger disipates.It may sound bizzarre,but by getting this out into the bosom of your family,will help you,your siblings and your parents,if not the errant sister,so we have a 7-1 ratio of understanding as a possible result.
Also,no matter what,give her a hug and ask her to remember you once in a while,she may come round of her own accord.
The very best of British Luck to you.xx | You Ever Have Any Really Weird Or Off-The-Wall Inspirations For Paintings? You ever come up with what you think is a really cool title? You don’t have a painting in mind yet but you have a title? You ever do a painting to fit a title?
Or perhaps you find a magnificent empty frame at a yard sale or at a thrift shop somewhere and buy it because that wonderful old frame needs a painting inside it. You don’t have an exact idea for a painting but you have a frame waiting for you to paint it?
Example: A friend and I were talking about relationships and it got around to talk about love triangles. Then she wondered if love triangles between lesbians was as difficult as triangles between men and women. The phrase ‘menage a trois’ was mentioned and I thought up the title ‘Menage A ****.’ Now I’m stuck with this stupid, but cool, title and no painting to go with it. All I know is I’ll end up doing a painting I’ll call ‘Menage A ****.’
What about your off-the-wall inspirations? | oh yes...most of my stuff is inspired by something off the wall and my titles are just plain wierd. or visaversa. and yes i buy frames at yard sales all the time...even bought one that is gawddy and gildish with a title of a painting stamped right into the thing...so guess what i'll do i'll do a painting with that title and put it in that frame.
methinks we be birds of a similar feather. | Gay discrimination at my school. Help? My lesbian friend was told to stop kissing her girlfriend outside school by a teacher, and was then called into the principal's office to hear a further 3 complaints about it by 2 other teachers and some police **** who works at the school.
Is there any legal action that can be taken against the school for discrimination? and if so how would she go about it?
Thanks | Are you sure this was definitely discrimination? I work at a number of schools throughout London and whenever I see two guys kissing, regardless of their gender or sexuality, I break it apart too. It's part of the job and being a responsible adult, I'm afraid. Besides, horny teenagers making-out is one of the most awkward things for us to witness. It reminds us that we're getting old and less carefree (I'm 24. Sad times)
However, if it was undoubtedly discrimination, before you and your friend do anything, readdress the situation first. Does it really warrant legal action? Would there be a backlash such as expulsion?
Please focus on your studying. You won't be at the school forever. And you and your friend and anyone else from your school is free to kiss anyone they want. Just keep it away from the school grounds, ok?
Take it easy :D
p.s. Omaba IS great | How to get a best friend back? My best friend stopped talking to me and started being a complete **** to me about 9 months ago without reason at all. On my birthday which was three months ago, I had a party, and I invited her and we both got really drunk and she broke down in tears and apologised, and told the whole house how much of a dick she'd been, and how special i was, and how much our friendship meant to her, we were fine for about 2 weeks, not as close as before, but getting on well... and then she starts being a complete **** again. I love her so so so much, and I miss her so so so much, and I've told her, but she says every time "you sound like a lesbian, what're you on about, we are friends" but we're not friends, not really, and I just miss her so much, and what it used to be like, and I know I should just get over it and move on, but it's so hard to see her every day at college and not want to go and hug her, or go and slap her for what she's doing to me. I've tried everything, ignoring her, trying to be mutual, begging her, but it's so hard to see her every day and just pretend we were never friends. I want her back, any advice? | Read back what you just wrote, it does sound like you fancy her too much. As you get older, you move away from the 'best friend' scenario. You develop a larger social network at first and meet different people, people change. It seems to me that you like the idea of you two as best friends, but in reality she has changed. Telling her you love and miss her, does make you sound like you have feelings for her.
Heres some advice. In ANY relationship, there is always going to be one person that cares less. That person, is consequently in charge.
If you come off too strong, your going to push the person away, and thats what you are doing.
Relax.. make other friends, don't get so excited about your friendship rekindling either if it does. The reason her behavior has changed is because you forced her away.
Another thing to take into consideration is how her friends will be seeing this relationship the two of you have. She might be getting 'stick' for being friends with, and the severity of that stick will be increased if you go around proclaiming you love and miss her. That's not something you say to people unless their an ex or a family member to tell the truth.
There's a LOT of people in this world, try talking to some others and you might find you don't need this 'BFF', but again - don't come off to strong. | I am so confused ....? Okay, first of all can i just say that i don't want any stupid narrow minded people answering this question, if your gonna be a **** then go and answer someone elses questions not mine :)
Anyway, after sounding like i complete ***** , I have a slight problem.
I am 16 and female.
about 4 months ago i met a girl, she and i became mates instantly. she is a lesbian, and sometimes she flirts with me, and to be honest i flirt back, it just feels right when i am with her, but after our little flirting session i just feel confused. i think i like her, but i dont think i am lesbain. i have never felt this way about anyone before, i get butterfllys when i see her, i stay up untill stupid hours in the morning talking to her on msn and skype and that.
I just dont know what to do, what my family would say if i suddenly out of the blue popped up with a girl friend.
Any sensible answers would be a great help!
Thanks :) | so..you dont think that you're lesbian. but it's different when you with her.
why dont you give it a try? since..you're still not sure yet..dont think you should tell your family about this. |
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