Is it strange for me, a self- identified lesbian, to orgasm by watching straight porn? I don't want to have a relationship with a man but I imagine myself being the woman once in a while. It's extra weird because I tend to be slightly butch. |
| No, I don't think it is strange at all. I'm a lesbian and I like to watch straight porn. I also like to watch lesbian porn and, every once in a while, gay male porn. I think that we, as gays, are much more open to ideas of sexuality. We are not as close-minded as many heteros that think there can't be anything else out there but man/woman sex. While I have never pictured myself as being the woman, I can understand that you have. Perhaps it isn't the man that you want . . . maybe you like the idea of being penetrated, or maybe it is the male temperment that you like. If you are slightly butch, you might have a tendency to be with more submissive women. Maybe you just need a partner that is more aggressive. |
How do I orgasm during my lesbian sex? I really enjoy being with my fiance and occasionally making love with her. But when we do I have a hard time "getting-off" and having an orgasm. I've tried realaxing, and focusing on the pleasure. But that is not working. Anyone know how to help? |
I would try imaging some dirty yet sexy things in your head while your girl is giving it to you! For example you can join in the 'work' and rub clit hard and strong whilst imagining her grinding your pussy till the edge of the world. Also, keep groaning and yelling stuff like "YES!" or "Oh My God! Give it to me!!!" to get you and her in the mood. if she is unhappy with your non orgasms at the Moment, focus on her orgasm instead or try to get aroused beforehand by for example watching some porn...
You could even film yourselves going at it then watch the footage and see if you can pick up anything you weren't doing that could get you all the way! |
How do I give myself a clitoral orgasm while having sex with my lesbian girlfriend? I'm trying to get a clitoral orgasm while my hubby and I are having sex at the same time. I can do it while I'm alone but its hard doing it while we are having sex any tips or suggestions (also no websites because I'm on my phone and it I won't be able to see it) Thanks! |
| Powerful vibrator held to the clit. Might need to make new positions in order to use it, but it is totally worth it! |
Am I a bad lesbian if I can't orgasm? I have been with my girlfriend for one and a half years. I can easily give her an orgasm, but I have only been able to reach it once. Does that make me a bad lesbian? Aren't lesbians supposed to know a lot about that kind of stuff and easily reach orgasm? |
No, of course not!
You both probably just need to talk about it and experiment some more to figure out what works for you. Do you masturbate/can you reach orgasm by yourself? If you can do it for yourself you will have a much easier time helping her get you there because in a lot of cases, you could ask how she is supposed to know how to make you orgasm if you don't know what will do it for you either. |
Lesbian orgasm help, please? Me and my girlfriend have never enjoyed sex with anyone until we started dating each other, and now we're in love and the sex is nice but we still can't manage to orgasm and it's frustrating us both feeling like we can't do it.
The closest we get is normally through fingering, and we've both googled tips for fingering but they weren't very helpful.....advice please?
Also do any positions make it easier or feel really good?
Also when one of getting into it we get distracted and don't reciprocate well.
And our hands/wrists tend to hurt before we can get really into it so we have to stop. What's the best positioning of hands? |
One word - tribbing. There are many methods of tribbing, one of which is known as scissoring, but I personally don't like that method. I prefer being able to look her in the eyes, so I use the thigh. Get some baby oil.
I would go into details, but I think it would be just a little graphic for Y!A. Just go to wikipedia, and look up tribbing. |
I'm straight but I can only orgasm through lesbian porn? I have never had a crush on a girl or wanted to be with one - in fact, I've been a bit boy-crazy throughout my life. But for some reason, I haven't been able to orgasm from masturbating without porn, or from stimulation by my boyfriend of two years. I can only orgasm while watching lesbian or threesome porn. It's like only girl-on-girl can send me over the edge, but I am still attracted to and love being with my boyfriend.
We're still in the process of experimenting with it, but I'm starting to worry that I'll never be able to. What can I do? |
does this help, i'm %110 lesbian but i only have orgasms from watching gay porn, guy on guy, it's just porn.
Don't judge me |
I am a lesbian and find that I orgasm way too easily..? Okay so I'm 16 and have been in a long term relationship with another girl. I find that I orgasm too easily like when we've hardley started and then I get disinterested immediately and feel really tired and just want to sleep, its causing some arguments and is just plain annoying! help? |
| So instead of just going for the quick orgasm, take some time and start exploring the sensuality of the rest of each other's body. Do it ssslooowwwwlllllllllyyyyyyyyyyy. See how turned on you can get each other, before you cannot stand it any more. |
Strictly speaking biologically, Is it possible for a male to give a lesbian an orgasm? I mean,you hear stories of women who were raped and had a sexual response to it even though they did not enjoy it. That is not to say I condone rape or a man trying the hook up with a lesbian. The former is horrific and the latter is a waste of breath. But say hypothetically A lesbian were to for some cosmic reason, allow a man to attempt to make her climax, Would he physically be able to do so even if she isn't attracted to him? |
| Lesbians use phallic sex toys to get off, so I don't see how this is any different. Emotionally, there probably wouldn't be much of an attraction but the body itself doesn't care who's doing what. It's purely sensory. |
I have never had a orgasm with a man, and find woman attractive does this mean I am a lesbian? I have been with over 5 men, never had a orgasm never even close, I find woman attractive just never thought I would have the guts to touch them never have, i'm really starting to worry why I cant seem to get a orgasm orally,for play and sex nothing with a man... help me please |
| It is possible, but you might be straight and just never had a guy know what he was doing. The question isn't 'did he give me one' but rather are you ATTRACTED to him? Maybe you should try being with a woman and if you aren't attracted to her when doing it, that's probably your answer. |
Ok so me and my friend were grinding, and i sorta got an orgasm. does that mean im a lesbian?!? i also get turned on by girls sometimes. But i loooveee men ! |
| you are bi sexual...:D |